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JOINT TEXT FOR THE PASTORAL CARE OF INTERCHURCH FAMILIES OF ROMAN CATHOLIC AND WALDENSIAN OR METHODIST CHURCHES IN ITALY THE APPLICATIVE TEXT
Preamble The Italian Episcopal Conference and the Synod of the Waldensian and
Methodist churches, recognizing the need to make the "Joint text
for the pastoral care of Interchurch families of Roman Catholic and Waldensian
or Methodist churches in Italy" effective, nominated their respective
commissions with the purpose of reaching an agreement on the "Applicative
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INTRODUCTION 1. (The Joint Text) -"The Joint Text for the pastoral care
of interchurch families of Roman Catholic and Waldensian or Methodist
churches in Italy", endorsed on 16th June 1997 by both faith communities,
has become very significant for ecumenical interrelationships in this
country. The document deals with the question of mixed marriages,1
which, in the past, often caused conflicts between the two churches as
well as bringing distress to the families involved. 2. (An applicative document) - The Joint Text contemplates an
applicative document which will enable the advice for pastoral care it
contains, to be put into practice. (Conclusion. Joint Text). 3. (Addressees) - The document is addressed to the local churches, in particular, to the priests and ministers who are responsible for these communities, that they may accompany the decisions of the future spouses with respect and clarity. The text is also addressed to the couple themselves, to help them, as they prepare for the marriage and their future life together, to be conscious of their rights and their duties: I - INTRODUCTION 4. (Different norms) - The differences and the divergences between the catholic and protestant concepts of marriage being not a few, it follows that the applicative regulations of the Joint Text must differ - second part. 5. (Knowledge, understanding, applicaton) - When an interchurch marriage ceremony is celebrated, whether in a Waldensian, Methodist or Roman Catholic church, the spouses must be informed of these regulations and of their true meaning; these must be applied correctly, according to the agreed forms, so as to be sure that both ecclesial communions are able to identify themselves in the marriage ceremony. 6. (The Roman Catholic Norm) - According to the Catholic church, these regulations are contained in the Canon law and, as far as Italy is concerned, resumed in the general decree of the Italian Episcopal Conference (C.E.I.). The meaning of this norm must be explained and the terms of application of the commitments undertaken by the Catholic party must be clarified so that the freedom and the conscience of the protestant party will not be impaired. 7. (The license) -The Canon law establishes that "the marriage
between two baptized persons (only one of whom is a Catholic)... cannot
be celebrated without the special license issued by the competent authority"
(see.can.1124). 8. (Declarations and promises) - Canon 1125, n.1, establishes:
"The Catholic spouse declares to be ready to avoid any danger of
forsaking his/her faith, and sincerely promises to do all in his/her power
to have his/her children baptized and spiritually educated in the Roman
Catholic church". 9. (Information to Protestant partner) - The Catholic priest is
required to inform the Protestant spouse of the declarations and promises
made by the Catholic spouse(see can. 1125, n. 2), explaining their contents
and the meaning. The Protestant partner will take cognizance without any
obligation to assent or sign anything. The priest must simply bear witness
to this fact. 10. (Purpose and fundamental attributes of marriage) - Can. 1125,
n. 3 states: "both partners must be instructed as to the purpose
and fundamental attributes of marriage, neither of the contracting parties
being excluded". This is a question of principle concerning the unity
of the couple, the indissolubility of the marriage and the acceptance
by both partners of the natural law of procreation. 11. (Forms of celebration for interchurch marriages) - An interchurch marriage may take place in a Catholic or Protestant church, or before an official of the Registry office. 12. (The "canonic form" and the dispensation from the "canonic
form") - When the interchurch marriage is celebrated in the Catholic
church, the validity of this celebration is conditioned by the observance
to the "canonic form" which means that the marriage must take
place in the presence of the Bishop or the local priest (or their delegate)
and two witnesses. 13. (The place where the interchurch marriage will be celebrated)
- When the bride and groom choose to celebrate their marriage in the Catholic
church, the ceremony usually takes place in the parish church which the
Catholic partner attends, canonic norm 1115. 14. (Notification to the churches of marriage which has taken place) - The Joint text (2.5) establishes that both the Catholic and Protestant spouses will take care that their marriage, when celebratedand, at the same time, in a church different from their own, will afterwards be registered in their own church if this is requested by the discipline of the same. 15. (Special cases) - The general decree on marriage of the C.E.I., in chapters V (36-47), VI, VII, and VIII, deals with a series of exceptional situations, some of which could concern interchurch marriages. In these specific cases, the qualified Protestant minister should be consulted so that the best solution to the matter in question can be found-that which is the most desirable for the couple themselves and, in a future time, for their children. The regulations of both churches as well as the consciences of the couple will therefore be respected. 16. (New wording) - Number 1126 of the Canon law confers a certain
freedom to the C.E.I. to formulate the wording of the declarations and
promises of the Catholic spouse who requests the above mentioned license.
Within the sphere of this concession, a positive wording of some expressions
is suggested; thus, without altering the meaning, the expressions may
be understood and received in a brotherly and ecumenical spirit. II - THE ASPECTS OF THE CIVIL LAW 17. (The civil consequences) - The Italian Republic acknowledges the civil consequences of marriages celebrated according to the Roman Catholic canonical law6 and of those celebrated according to Waldensian discipline7,on condition that the banns have been published and that the marriage act has been recorded in the Registry Office. 18. (Procedure for the celebration according to the CDC norm) - For the Catholic part, after fulfilling the preliminary procedures for the marriage, the priest will apply to the registrar of the municipality where the contracting spouse resides, for the publication of the banns. The registrar will then send a certificate of the civil publication to the priest. The priest can then procede with the marriage ceremony, read the articles 143,144 and 147 of the civil law to the bride and bridegroom and forward a copy of the certificate to be registered. 19. (Procedure for the celebration according to Waldensian discipline) - For the Waldensian part, the spouses themselves apply for the publication of the banns, declaring that they desire to be married according to the Waldensian discipline. The registrar will read the articles 143,144 and 147 of the civil law to the spouses. Following the publication of the banns, the registrar will leave the spouses a duplicate copy of the permit so that the marriage can then be celebrated. After the ceremony, the minister will forward an original copy of the marriage certificate and the permit to the registrar for the records. 20. (The marriage certificate) - The declaration of the separation of matrimonial property (c.c. art. 162, 2nd par.) and the acknowledgement of any natural children (c.c. art. 283) can be declared on the marriage certificate. III - MARRIAGE PREPARATION 21. (Importance of preparation) - The Joint Text considers the
preparation of an interchurch marriage to be particularly important. It
does not lay down inflexible procedures for this, but leaves the two parties
ample creative spaces in which to move, in a spirit of friendly understanding
and the respect of the discipline of both ecclesial communities.(Joint
Text 3.2.) 22. (What the preparation should contain) - The following suggestions
are made for an adequate preparation: 23. (The places of preparation) - As fare as the place is concerned: 24. (Freedom of choice of the spouses) - The spouses must be free to choose the marriage ceremony which is in keeping with their sensitivities. For this reason, the three possibilities should be illustrated to them: the "canonic form", the form according to Waldensian discipline, in the registry office. 25. (Information and basic preparation) - The preparation for an interchurch marriage should not be limited to that which precedes an actual mixed marriage. It should take place, rather, in the normal courses of catechesis of the local churches, for both young people and adults, as suggested by the Joint Text (3.2b.). Both churches would then have opportunity to renew their courses of catechesis and training, and be able to include the theme of interchurch marriages. IV - THE MARRIAGE SERVICE 26. (Choice and adjustments of the ceremony according to the church where the marriage is celebrated) - The betrothed freely choose the church where they intend to be married and the wedding ceremony will be celebrated according to the worship tradition of that church. Any adjustment to the usual liturgy will be agreed upon with the minister: choice of Bible texts, brief delarations, prayers, hymns etc., all of which, however, must fit in harmoniously with the usual worship pattern. 27. (Representation and participation of the other church) - If the couple so desire, the minister or a representative of the other community may take an active part during the interchurch marriage ceremony, with a message, a prayer of intercession, or by preaching the sermon etc. For this purpose, the ceremony should be prepared by the future bride and groom, together with both ministers. However, only the minister of the church where the marriage is celebrated will receive the promises and declarations of the spouses. 28. (Advisability of ecumenical gestures of welcome) - There is
no set "ecumenical service" for interchurch marriages which
has been agreed on by the two ecclesial communions. 29. (Worship based on the Word) - The interchurch marriage ceremony, both in the Catholic and Protestant church, is centered around the Word of God (Liturgy of the Word). The Eucharist or the Lord's Supper is usually excluded so that there is no element of division in what should be an occasion of true communion for the bride and groom; on the other hand, it is a reminder that rue spiritual unity between the two churches has still not been reached. 30. (Wording of the vows) - The exchange of the marriage vows
during the ceremony takes place in conformity with the regulations of
the churches. V. - CIVIL MARRIAGE CONDUCTED IN THE REGISTRY OFFICE 31. (The marriage ceremony by civil rite or in a civil office) - The ceremony conducted in the registry office or by civil rite, consists of exchanging the vows before the registrar rather than before a minister of the Gospel. 32. (Marriage by civil rite according to the Catholic church)
- For the Catholic church, the above mentioned ceremony is not excluded
from the extensive wording of can.1127,n.2;it is implicit in the expression
"except......possible agreements" of the general decree on canonical
marriage n.50 and was already established for the Pinerolo diocese from
1970. 33. (Clarifications) - It is necessary to exlain, especially to
practicing catholics, that the civil rite celebrated before the registrar
is not the "civil marriage" in the sense that is usually understood
by catholics, but it is a "non-religious" marriage ceremony. 34. (Marriage by civil rite for the Waldensian church) - A marriage by civil rite (i.e. in the registry office)for the Waldensian church represents no problem for the reason that the church gives no particular significance to the form of the celebration:"...every believer knows, by faith, that their marriage is covenanted before God, whatever form they decide to follow to announce this publicly" (Waldensian Synod, Document on marriage, n.15). 35. (Importance of the marriage conducted in the registry office) - In any case, the churches should underline the importance of an interchurch civil marriage, being an act of social, civil and moral responsibility. 36. (Following up the civil marriage) - The Joint Text (3.3 c)
suggests that, after the interchurch marriage ceremony in the registry
office, without renewing the marriage vows, a shared time of prayer and
testimony could be held, as a visible sign of the faith of the bride and
bridegroom and of their desire to live their marriage as a means to grow
towards Christian unity. No definite indications are given regarding this;
the choice is left to the spouses, supported by their respective ministers
or other representatives of their communities. 37. (Notification of marriage to respective churches) - The newly married couple should notify their respective churches of their new status by means of a marriage certificate, so that their marriage can be written up in the official church register. VI - THE BAPTISM OF CHILDREN 38. (Mutual recognition of baptism) - There is a mutual recognition between the Roman Catholic and Protestant churches (with the exception of the Baptist)of the validity of the baptism administered in either of the communities, and this has been so for some time. For this reason, baptism is cannot be repeated in these churches. 9 39. (Ecumenical collaboration regarding baptism of the children of
interchurch families) - The interchurch couple who desire to have
their children baptized, must be free to choose the church for this rite. 40. (Godfathers and Godmothers) - In the Waldensian and Methodist
churches, the Godfather's and Godmother's role is not considered to be
essential. If a practising catholic asks to be Godfather or Godmother
of a child baptized in these churches, the request is accepted if he/she
is fully aware of the meaning of baptism and of the promises he/she accepts
to share with the parents. VII - THE RELIGIOUS UPBRINGING OF THE CHILDREN 41. (Equal rights and duties of both parents) - The religious
or spiritual upbringing of the children of interchurch families is the
right and duty of both parents. This means that, in a mixed marriage,
one parent cannot leave this duty entirely to the other, thus avoiding
his/her own direct responsibility. 42. (Suggestions for the religious upbringing of the children)
- The spiritual education of interchurch family children has been approached
in different ways, always with the aim of giving them a biblical foundation
and, at the same time, of bringing them up to know and "feel at home"
in both ecclesial realities. Their total freedom to choose confirmation
or adult baptism must at all times be safeguarded. 43. (Joint ecumenical undertaking in the field of catechesis) - As far as the religious education of young people is concerned, the communities having interchurch families as members, have felt the need to share resources in the field of catechesis. This consists of putting together common riches and experience, and, not witholding the differences and divergencies, presenting the other church to the young people (history, theology, spirituality)impartially and without prejudice. 44. (Sharing interchurch resources in the field of catechesis) - In the ecclesial communities where there are children of interchurch marriages, a sharing of resources in the field of catechesis should be organized by carrying out a joint programme of catechesis based on biblical teaching, prepared by the two local churches. This programme could include time for dialogue concerning the differences and divergences of the two communities, a help for those young people who have yet to make a decision concerning their future commitment. The interchurch family itself is obviously the first "domestic church" for this catechesis. 45. (A promise made in an ecumenical perspective) - Those who are baptized or accept confirmation in one or other of the churches, promise to testify to Christ and their faith. This promise should include witnessing to the shared spiritual values of the two communities, thus furthering the ecumenical pilgrimage of the two churches, building bridges of understanding and trust in place of the former walls. VIII - THE PARTICIPATIVE SUPPORT OF THE LOCAL CHURCH 46. (Interest, support and welcome of the local community) - The
Joint text (3.1 and 3.4) underlines the necessity of the local churches
becoming involved in the event of an interchurch marriage, so that it
is not merely a private matter concerning the two families of the spouses,
who often tend to feel surrounded by distrust misunderstanding. 47. (Active presence of the interchurch couple) - While respecting their specific partnership, the interchurch couple should take an active part in the community, building up that fellowship which is so important for mutual understanding and getting to know each other. The couple could help to introduce ecumenical activities, such as Bible study, prayer and other meetings, to the community. 48. (The problem of the mutual sharing of Holy Communion) - Among the "new problems" and "new responsibilities" that the interchurch couples will have to face, with the support and fellowship of the Christian community, (Joint Text 3.4), there is the delicate question of the sharing of the Holy Communion or the Lord's Supper with the partner who is a member of the other church. 49. (Sharing the Lord's Supper for the Waldensian church) - The Waldensian church, following the Leuenberg Agreement, believes that "during the Lord's Supper, the risen Jesus Christ offers himself in his body and blood shed for all, through his promises and in the symbols of bread and wine. Thus, He gives himself, unreservedly to all who receive the bread and wine. Their faith receives them for salvation, their unbelief for judgement"10. The Waldensian church welcomes all who freely and in faith, "examining themselves" (I Corinthians 11.28), approach the Lord's Table, which is His and belongs to no special church. 50. (Sharing Holy Communion -the Eucharist-for the Roman Catholic
church) - On the one hand, the Catholic church believes that total
ecclesial communion and its visible sign are essential for the mutual
sharing of Holy Communion. On the other hand, it is baptism which "establishes
the holy bond ofunity....and reaches out to the fulness of life in Christ";
for this reason, the Catholic church "recognizes that in some exceptional
circumstances, and in precise conditions, Christians of other ecclesial
communities can be admitted to, or even recommended to partake in this
sacrament (the eucharest)"11 51. (Holy Communion and communion with the Universal Church) - Roman Catholics, Waldensians, Methodists, in different ways, believe in the strong bond between Eucharistic communion and the communion of the Universal church, as the apostle Paul affirms: "Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread" (I Corinthians 10.17). Nevertheless, there are differences in the interpretation of this bond and in the consequences which follow on a theological and pastoral plane. 52. (The interchurch couples) - In this context of consonance and differences, the interchurch couples(families)seek to live, with the aid of the Holy Spirit and the strength of the Word, as an undivided "household church". Torre Pellice, 25th August 2000
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_______________ 1 This definition includes both the Catholic wording (mixed marriages)
and the Protestant(interchurch marriages).Both wordings denote marriage
between believers of different Christian traditions. |
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